Is There a Money Mistress In Your Relationship?


Money is the #1 problem in relationships next to sex— Dr. Bonnie’s Smart Heart Skills and Dialogue (money love language) turns the power struggle of money talks into money as an aphrodisiac.

Financial Infidelity is a deception so subtle you don’t even realize you’re cheating.

Dr. Bonnie addresses the recent shift in power and money between men and women, and exposes the money, sex, and love triangle, helping you to uncover the hidden financial problems in refinancing your relationship and to heal the inevitable emotional fallout.

Dr. Bonnie has a 98% rate of success in counseling her patients. This book is a valuable tool and the next best thing to a session with the doctor herself.  She teaches people how to bring back the romance magic with novelty and excitement even when you’re having “money talks”.

Whether it’s a secret credit card, hidden shopping bags, revenge spending, a gambling problem, or more overt financial manipulations and power plays, the infidelities associated with money can be just as damaging to a relationship as a physical affair.

  • Identify the risk of Financial Infidelity and money struggles in your relationship.
  • Exercises on reigning in and ranking overspending.
  • Understand how buying, rewarding, or controlling behavior with money can open the door to lies, betrayals, and affairs.
  • Understand how childhood relationships to money and love can create damaging emotional links.
  • Separate the value of your relationship from the value of your bank account.
  • Disconnect from harmful emotional and financial behaviors in order to reconnect with your partner and regain trust, intimacy, and romantic sizzle!

“A must-read for everyone – singles and couples alike. Dr. Eaker Weil shows how to predict, prepare for, and prevent Financial Infidelity and unlock the secret to money fitness and lasting love.
David Bach, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Smart Couples Finish Rich and The Automatic Millionaire

“Financial Infidelity expands the concept of the mistress to money and shows yet another way couples cause each other misery. Taking a fresh look at couples and money, the author illuminates a largely ignored challenge and offers couples detailed and excellent procedures to replace the money addictions with intimacy. I heartily recommend the book to all couples.”
Harville Hendrix, Ph.D. New York Times bestselling author of Getting the Love You Want and Receiving Love

“This compassionate, insightful book should be required reading for all couples. Dr. Eaker Weil explains why Financial Infidelity has become an epidemic and shows you how to create a blueprint for emotional and financial connection.”
T. Harv Eker, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Secrets of the Millionaire Mind

“And you thought lying about sex is what destroys a relationship? Try again. Dr. Bonnie elegantly shows how spending, hiding, and lying about money are the foremost wreckers of romance and marriage – triggering deep feelings of betrayal and distrust, even initiating adultery. Sex, love, money; it’s all connected. In the first book ever on this topic, Dr. Bonnie gives some excellent advice on how to unveil and tame this devil and keep love alive. It’s honest, creative, daring, and above all useful.”
Dr. Helen Fisher, anthopologist, Rutgers University, author of Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love

Financial Infidelity: Seven Steps to Conquering the #1 Relationship Wrecker is available at