Welcome to Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil’s website!
Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil is a relationship and marriage counselor that specializes in couple and relationship therapy to bridge intimacy issues keeping relationships from thriving. Her practice in marriage and family therapy has helped individuals and couples save their relationships and their marriages.
Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil course on Marriage and Relationships on Ed2Go.com is Released!
Dr. Bonnie’s course “Marriage and Relationships: Keys to Success” a 6-week course has been released by Ed2Go.com. Check out the course material here.
Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil awarded the US Commerce Assn New York Award!
US Commerce Association had chosen Bonnie Eaker Weil PhD for the 2013 New York Awards in the Therapist classification.
Nationally, fewer than 1% (1 in 120) of the 2013 Awards were certified as Three-Time awardees. For most companies, this recognition is a result of your dedication and efforts as well as the work of others in your organization that have helped build your business. Your team is now a part of an exclusive group of small businesses that have achieved this selection.
Watch for Dr. Bonnie!
Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil will be showing up on Opray’s OWN Network and the Huffington Post.
Dr. Bonnie is also on the Best of Oprah on OWN beginning May 21, 2013.
Dr. Bonnie quoted in Men’s Health
Read what Dr. Bonnie has to say about Turning a Fight into Make Up Sex in Men’s Health, May 2013.
Dr. Bonnie quoted in Care.com
Read what Dr. Bonnie has to say about 6 Mother’s Day Gifts for Modern Moms. Click here
Dr. Bonnie quoted in Cosmopolitan
Read what Dr. Bonnie has to say about how to defuse a blowout. Click here
Dr. Bonnie quoted in USA Today
Read what Dr. Bonnie has to say about Tiger Woods and Lindsey Vonn. Click here
Experts Sound Off on Money and Dating
Hear what Dr. Bonnie and other experts have to say about Money and Dating. Click here
The Future of Personal Development
Dr. Bonnie’s book Make Up, Don’t Break Up is voted “Best Dating Book of 2010″ by NY Times Company
Dr. Bonnie’s book, “Make Up, Don’t Break Up”, a dating book for singles, married and unmarried couples, was voted as the Best Dating Book in 2010 by About.com a part of the New York Times Company. Thank you all for all your votes which helped us win this coveted title.
ADULTERY IS CURABLE!
Doctor Bonnie is also known as “The Adultery Buster”. Adultery is a disease that can be cured! Check out Dr. Bonnie’s other web site about adultery: Adultery Busters!
The Updated version of the book Make Up Don’t Break Up is now available!
The Updated version of the book Make Up Don’t Break Up is now available!
Harville Hendrix, Ph.D. stated,
“This is among the most helpful, complete, and positive manual for saving a relationship that I have seen. Dr Eaker Weil has presented her effective process with such straightforward and simple language, extensive details, and enthusiasm that all singles and couples who read the book cannot help but be inspired to “make up.”
Annoying pet peeves that could kill the romance
Hear what Dr. Bonnie has to say about this in the Toronto Sun. Click here
Download a pdf of the Toronto Sun article annoyingpetpeeves_torontosun
Dr. Bonnie’s works with couples and individuals on:
• Relationship Therapy
• Individual Therapy
• Couples Counseling
• Break Up Help
• Pre-Marital Counseling
• Separation Counseling
• Divorce Counseling
• Parenting Issues
• Adultery Counseling
• Straight Couples Therapy
• Gay Couples Therapy
• Drug Addiction
• Alcohol Addiction, Alcoholism
• Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
• Workaholism – Workaholic
• Foodaholic – Food Addiction
• Teaching Families New Techniques to Work with Children
• Narcissism and Narcissistic Behaviors
• Anger Management
• Sexual Healing for Couples
• Forgiveness After The Affair
• Restoring Passion and Intimacy
• Communication and Intimacy for Men and Women
For PR or Immediate Attention, call Dr. Bonnie at 917-658-5440
For appointments or a consultation, contact us at 212-616-3787
Relationship Questions & Answer from Doctor Bonnie
Award Mrs. P a valor medal
- New York Daily News, Thursday Nov. 22, 2012. Read about it here!
Petreaus isn’t the first (or the last): Why powerful men cheat
- Toronto Sun, Thursday Nov. 15, 2012. Read about it here!
Dr. Bonnie quoted in USA Today about Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes
Read about it here. Or view the article here
Dr. Bonnie quoted in Chicago Tribune about Couples and Money
Bonnie Eaker Weil PhD Receives 2012 Best of Manhattan Award
U.S. Commerce Association’s Award Plaque Honors Dr. Weil for the Second Consecutive Year
NEW YORK, NY, April 3, 2012 — For the second consecutive year, Bonnie Eaker Weil PhD has been selected for the 2012 Best of Manhattan Award in the Physicians category by the U.S. Commerce Association (USCA).
The USCA “Best of Local Business” Award Program recognizes outstanding local businesses throughout the country. Each year, the USCA identifies companies that they believe have achieved exceptional marketing success in their local community and business category. These are local companies that enhance the positive image of small business through service to their customers and community.
Nationwide, only 1 in 70 (1.4%) 2012 Award recipients qualified as Two-Time Award Winners. Various sources of information were gathered and analyzed to choose the winners in each category. The 2012 USCA Award Program focuses on quality, not quantity. Winners are determined based on the information gathered both internally by the USCA and data provided by third parties.
Doctor Bonnie has a video on the Huffington Post! Watch it here.
Dr. Bonnie’s Relationship Tips:
“Social media affects cheating as it is like a kid in a candy store, It is a cry for help, and a way to be found out when adultery is the problem. People can be found out a lot sooner because everybody is their own snoop and private investigator/lawyer. The world wide web is an open book!”
If you have been cheated on in the past, Dr. Bonnie provides tips on how to move on and protect yourself from it happening again:
Discovery Health OWN Network
Dr. Bonnie featured therapist on “Unfaithful” Watch it here

Read Dr. Bonnie’s Relationship advice
Cheating is not an accident, it is a choice
Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil (Dr. Bonnie) is a relationship expert known as one of America’s best therapists, and by New York Magazine as one of New York City’s best therapists. Known as “The Adultery Buster” and the “No. 1 Love Expert,” she is the best-selling author of Adultery: The Forgivable Sin (adapted into a Lifetime movie starring actress Kate Jackson), Make Up Don’t Break Up, Finding and Keeping Love for Singles and Couples (Revised edition Feb 2010, including DVD How to Fall in Love and Stay in Love for Singles and Couples), Can We Cure and Forgive Adultery?, Staying Not Straying, How Not to (S)mother Your Man and Keep a Woman Happy, and Financial Infidelity; The #1 Relationship Wrecker.
Dr. Bonnie has appeared on ABC’s Good Morning America, a three-day series on NBC’s The Today Show, The Oprah Winfrey Show five times, a four day series on Fox TV regarding dating. She appears frequently on ABC, Fox, CBS and NBC News, The View, 20/20, and CNN.
Her cutting edge skills have been featured in The New York Times, New York Magazine, USA Today, Cosmopolitan, Redbook, People and Ladies’ Home Journal.
In her book, Make Up, Don’t Break Up, Dr. Weil takes you step by step through a new understanding of relationships-the mysterious process of connecting, why men disconnect and how to educate them to reconnect/connect (Connectible by instruction)- to help you find and keep the lasting love you want.
Dr Bonnie’s approach turns the conventional wisdom of finding and sustaining love- upside down:







