“Restore the magic and repair the damage after an affair,” says Dr. Bonnie Eaker-Weil.
You CAN restore the magic and repair the damage after an affair.
Dr. Bonnie Eaker-Weil says, “This requires teaching empathy to the adulterer and looking for remorse and helping the betrayed see the equal signs of betrayal that contribute to an affair.”
Here are some adultery warning signs:
• Is your partner introducing or suggesting new sexual techniques;
• Bringing up the name of a colleague or neighbor frequently;
• Is your partner spending more time away at business meetings;
• Is your spouse doing good deeds that usually are avoided, without prompting.
The Five Big Falsehoods About Adultery.
1. Adultery is About Sex;
2. Adultery is About Character;
3. Adultery is Therapeutic;
4. Adultery is Harmless;
5. Adultery has to End in Divorce
This and much more is discussed in further detail in Dr. Eaker-Weil’s books, Adultery The Forgivable Sin and Make Up, Don’t Break Up – Finding and Keeping Love for Singles and Couples.
Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil (Dr. Bonnie) is a relationship expert who was named by Psychology Today as one of America’s best therapists, and by New York Magazine as one of New York City’s best therapists and US Commerce association as Manhattan’s best therapist. Known as “The Adultery Buster” and the “No. 1 Love Expert,” she is the best-selling author of Adultery: The Forgivable Sin (adapted into a Lifetime movie starring actress Kate Jackson), Make Up Don’t Break Up, Finding and Keeping Love for Singles and Couples(including online video: How to Fall in Love and Stay in Love for Singles and Couples), Can We Cure and Forgive Adultery?, Staying Not Straying, How Not to (S)mother Your Man and Keep a Woman Happy, and Financial Infidelity: Seven Steps to Conquering the #1 Relationship Wrecker.
Dr. Bonnie has appeared on ABC’s Good Morning America, a three-day series on NBC’s The Today Show, The Oprah Winfrey Show five times, a four day series on Fox TV regarding dating, Discovery Health documentary “Unfaithful” and A&E on addictions. She appears frequently on ABC, Fox, CBS and NBC News, The View, 20/20, and CNN.
Dr. Bonnie is also available for phone therapy. Call 212-606-3787 for more details and to schedule an appointment with Dr. Bonnie.
