What can you do?
Like my patients who take advantage of the summer heat to “fire” up their relationship and light each other’s Fire, take a romantic walk after dinner to the light of the moon as its dark later. Have a picnic in the park and surprise your partner when he/she arrives home leave a note where to secretly meet you! Cool off with a swim after work as a novelty to your relationship.
You do not need to spend money to have fun, quality intimate time together.
Remember what goes on outside the bedroom affects what goes on inside the bedroom! You can dance under the stars in summer. Many parks have that, so put on those dancing shoes like Paula and Brian did to create sizzle on those warm summer nights –the long “hot” summer that tricked themselves into those feelings they had when they fell for each other. As Katie Couric said to me on the Today Show that 30-second kiss does wonders to turn on outside the bedroom. Check out how to do this kiss in the video “Falling in Love and Staying in Love” that accompanies my Readers Choice NY Times book Make Up, Don’t Break Up: Finding and Keeping Love for Singles and Couples.
I am here to support you with any questions you may have from how to make up to how to deal with an affair. Please do not hesitate to call me directly at 212-606-3787 with your relationship questions.
Here is to finding and keeping real love!
Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil, Ph.D. – Love and Relationship Therapist
The best-selling author of:
Make Up, Don’t Break Up: Finding and Keeping Love for Singles and Couples
Financial Infidelity; The #1 Relationship Wreck
Can We Cure and Forgive Adultery
