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Adultery the Forgivable Sin Teleseminar
Can We Cure and Forgive Adultery?

September 14th 8:30 pm EST

Have you committed adultery?
Have you been a victim of an unfaithful significant other?
Have you grown up with a parent who committed adultery?

This seminar is for Singles, Couples, Married, Unmarried or Children of Adulterers!
Tune into this action packed teleseminar for tips from Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil- The Adultery Buster and #1 Love Expert in the World!

Attendees can speak directly to Dr. Bonnie Weil and receive your questions answered live on the call. If you have questions but don’t want to speak, you will be given an email address you can anonymously send your questions to have answered during the call! Whether you’re a participant or want to be a “fly on the wall” this call is for you. READ MORE

Unfaithful: Infidelity (Make Up Don’t Break Up)

Author of “Make Up Don’t Break Up” Offers Solutions to Couples Sleeping in Separate Beds

Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil, PhD, relationship therapist reports that the trend of couples sleeping in separate bedrooms has serious side effects to marriages and wellbeing of the individuals in the relationship.

Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil’s book “Make Up Don’t Break Up” is an antidote to the marital trend of sleeping in separate bedrooms. A recent New York Times article (www.nytimes.com/2010/07/25) reports this troubling marital trend. Reporting statistics from a 2005 survey by the National Sleep Foundation, one in every four American couples sleep in separate bedrooms. “This is a very unhealthy preference, especially when it is followed by the prediction by the National Association of Home Builders survey predicting that 60 percent of custom homes will be outfitted with dual master bedrooms by 2015. People know how to fall in love, but don’t understand the key elements to staying in love and connected. Sleeping together increases physical comfort and frequency of sex.” Dr. Bonnie Weil, known as the #1 Love Expert believes that physical closeness is the glue needed to keep couples together during conflict and rough times.

“Sleeping in separate bedrooms is a symptom of couples giving up on intimacy. Instead, couples need to have open and honest discussions about stress, fear, and bothersome habits,” offers Dr. Weil.

Sleeping separately can be a triggered by disorders such as restless leg syndrome, snoring, or sleep apnea. Other sleep interruptions can arise from one partner’s television habits, late night reading with the light on, or a Blackberry obsession. Maybe one partner is an early riser, and the other one is a night owl. Fussy kids, the flu, common colds, and pets vying for mattress real estate, can add up to a bedroom appearing more like a freeway during rush hour.

“Today’s worries, stress, overdrawn checking accounts, job instability and economic woes make a good night’s sleep a priority. But, separate bedroom might just be the nail in the marital coffin. It is critical that couples bring sizzle back into the relationship to create balance during difficult times,” explains Dr. Weil, author of Make Up Don’t Break Up and accompanying DVD titled Falling in Love and Staying in Love. Both products give specific guidelines to foster emotional and physical intimacy daily.

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“Breaking up should be a private thing,” says Dr. Bonnie,
author of Make Up Don’t Break Up.

Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil PhD, relationship expert warns against a growing trend of couples breaking up through social media sites. “Breaking up should be a private thing,” says Dr. Bonnie, author of Make Up Don’t Break Up. “Technology is a great way to keep in touch with loved ones and connect with long lost friends, but announcing status changes in a relationship on the Internet is inappropriate and socially cruel.” Dr. Bonnie considers breaking up on the Internet a form of cyber bullying, and a cowardly approach to handling a private situation. “This behavior leaves the abandoned lover feeling humiliated, ashamed and shunned by groups taking sides.”

A Facebook dating app (AreYouInterested) conducted a survey and the results of 1,000 responses are telling. Apparently, a lot of people are using social network sites to do the “dirty work” of dating, from surreptitious splits to manipulative messaging. Almost 25 percent of respondents found out their own relationships were over by seeing it on Facebook first.

Dr. Bonnie explains that avoidance of confrontation may be the cause of people resorting to breaking up through social media sites. “80 percent of men are distancers. I refer to this as a man being allergic to a woman’s emotionality. This avoidance, distancing, and fear of dealing with repercussions can lead to couples taking short cuts in ending a relationship.” But that doesn’t make it right. “I assist couples in learning how to communicate through all stages of their relationship, and there are right and wrong ways to break up. Ending a relationship on the Internet is wrong.”

Not only is Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, MySpace and other social networking sites the new trend for breaking up, it is also where many divorce attorneys are finding credible evidence for cases involving adultery. Apparently Tiger Woods phone isn’t the only tattler to “out” adulterers. Over 61 percent surveyed by IllicitEncounters,com, the UK’s largest extra-marital dating agency, said a text message had, at some point, either incriminated them or aroused suspicion about their affair.

Inspired Media Communications www.inspiredMC.com
Diane Dennis
503-678-1356

ADULTERY IS CURABLE!

Doctor Bonnie is also known as “The Adultery Buster”. Adultery is a disease that can be cured! Check out Dr. Bonnie’s other web site about adultery: Adultery Busters!

The book Make Up Don’t Break Up is coming out appropriately for Valentine’s Day!

How to Have an Affair

with your own Partner

featured Dr. Bonnie on

February 10, 2010

Find out how to create those same chemicals we make when we are falling in love or are truly happy. Learn how to have an affair with your own partner and fall in love with your partner all over again.

Learn how to affair-proof your marriage by ordering the audio from the Teleseminar click here!

Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil (Dr. Bonnie) is a relationship expert who was named by Psychology Today as one of America’s best therapists, and by New York Magazine as one of New York City’s best therapists. Known as “The Adultery Buster” and the “No. 1 Love Expert,” she is the best-selling author of Adultery: The Forgivable Sin (adapted into a Lifetime movie starring actress Kate Jackson), Make Up Don’t Break Up, Finding and Keeping Love for Singles and Couples (Revised edition Feb 2010, including DVD How to Fall in Love and Stay in Love for Singles and Couples), Can We Cure and Forgive Adultery?, Staying Not Straying, How Not to (S)mother Your Man and Keep a Woman Happy, and Financial Infidelity; The #1 Relationship Wrecker.

Dr. Bonnie has appeared on ABC’s Good Morning America, a three-day series on NBC’s The Today Show, The Oprah Winfrey Show five times, a four day series on Fox TV regarding dating. She appears frequently on ABC, Fox, CBS and NBC News, The View, 20/20, and CNN.

Her cutting edge skills have been featured in The New York Times, New York Magazine, USA Today, Cosmopolitan, Redbook, People and Ladies’ Home Journal.

In her book, Make Up, Don’t Break Up, Dr. Weil takes you step by step through a new understanding of relationships-the mysterious process of connecting, why men disconnect and how to educate them to reconnect/connect (Connectible by instruction)- to help you find and keep the lasting love you want.

Dr Bonnie’s approach turns the conventional wisdom of finding and sustaining love- upside down: