Welcome to Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil’s web site!
Lost that loving feeling? It’s time to have an affair…
with your own partner!
Unfaithful: Infidelity (Make Up Don’t Break Up)
Be aware of abusive dynamics.
The recorded cell phone conversations between Mel Gibson and Oksana Grigorieva portray an angry, volatile and verbally abusive man which demonstrates the classic signs of escalating violence. “Individuals in relationships need to know the signs of escalating abuse, and get out before it is too late. Addictive behavior combined with escalating threats is a recipe for domestic disaster,” reminds Dr. Bonnie.
“I want to make clear that if abuse in a relationship escalates, or there are uncontrolled substance issues, a partner must seek safety, even if it means leaving. Addictions cause impulsive decisions and behavior caused by a biochemical imbalance addicts suffers from,” explains Dr. Bonnie. While this knowledge can make a partner sympathetic, he or she must also be on guard for danger.
Domestic conflicts are more disturbing when children are involved. Gibson and Grigorieva have a biological child together, and she has a child from another relationship. Dr. Bonnie warns that if there are children subjected to emotional and/or physical abuse, the victims must get out immediately.
Money also apparently plays a role in this drama according to a report by TMZ.com filed on the TMZ blog site Monday July 19, 2010. The report states that allegedly Mel Gibson’s baby’s mother turned down an offer of $15 million to keep his taped rants out of the media spotlight. As Dr. Bonnie writes in her book Financial Infidelity, partners will resort to using money–a destructive and often last ditch effort to gain power, control and lash out against perceived unmet needs.
While the verdict on the alleged crimes involved in this relationship are left to lawyers and courts to sort out, the dramatic accusations are a reminder to all couples to set up healthy boundaries, get out if the children are subjected to emotional or physical abuse, and leave at the first hint of escalating abuse.
ADULTERY IS CURABLE!
Doctor Bonnie is also known as “The Adultery Buster”. Adultery is a disease that can be cured! Check out Dr. Bonnie’s other web site about adultery: Adultery Busters!
The book Make Up Don’t Break Up is coming out appropriately for Valentine’s Day!
Harville Hendrix, Ph.D. stated,
“This is among the most helpful, complete, and positive manual for saving a relationship that I have seen. Dr Eaker Weil has presented her effective process with such straightforward and simple language, extensive details, and enthusiasm that all singles and couples who read the book cannot help but be inspired to “make up.”
How to Have an Affair
with your own Partner
featured Dr. Bonnie on
February 10, 2010
Find out how to create those same chemicals we make when we are falling in love or are truly happy. Learn how to have an affair with your own partner and fall in love with your partner all over again.
Learn how to affair-proof your marriage by ordering the audio from the Teleseminar click here!
Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil (Dr. Bonnie) is a relationship expert who was named by Psychology Today as one of America’s best therapists, and by New York Magazine as one of New York City’s best therapists. Known as “The Adultery Buster” and the “No. 1 Love Expert,” she is the best-selling author of Adultery: The Forgivable Sin (adapted into a Lifetime movie starring actress Kate Jackson), Make Up Don’t Break Up, Finding and Keeping Love for Singles and Couples (Revised edition Feb 2010, including DVD How to Fall in Love and Stay in Love for Singles and Couples), Can We Cure and Forgive Adultery?, Staying Not Straying, How Not to (S)mother Your Man and Keep a Woman Happy, and Financial Infidelity; The #1 Relationship Wrecker.
Dr. Bonnie has appeared on ABC’s Good Morning America, a three-day series on NBC’s The Today Show, The Oprah Winfrey Show five times, a four day series on Fox TV regarding dating. She appears frequently on ABC, Fox, CBS and NBC News, The View, 20/20, and CNN.
Her cutting edge skills have been featured in The New York Times, New York Magazine, USA Today, Cosmopolitan, Redbook, People and Ladies’ Home Journal.
In her book, Make Up, Don’t Break Up, Dr. Weil takes you step by step through a new understanding of relationships-the mysterious process of connecting, why men disconnect and how to educate them to reconnect/connect (Connectible by instruction)- to help you find and keep the lasting love you want.
Dr Bonnie’s approach turns the conventional wisdom of finding and sustaining love- upside down:
