Dr. Bonnie Encourages a Sexy Touchdown During the Football Playoffs
Dr. Bonnie Encourages a Sexy Touchdown During the Football PlayoffsOver 30 million viewers, both men and women, tuned into last Saturday’s NFL playoffs on NBC leaving everyone with concerns about calorie consumption, but Dr. Bonnie says, “Making love has no calories. In fact, being intimate during halftime will actually burn some.” Dr. Bonnie encourages partners to enjoy a sexy touchdown during the football playoffs. A nice pillow fight and some tackling after the second quarter is high energy play and will bring endorphins to a full-time high. Adding in a 30 second kiss will also bring on a different rush from oxytocin, the cuddle hormone. If you can’t lick em, join them. A savvy woman knows how much football means to her guy whether married or single. Dr. Bonnie strongly suggests that being intimate during football halftime is a healthy way to connect with your sports lover. The Cleveland Clinic believes a healthy sexual relationship can positively affect all aspects of life. Many women and even men feel neglected when their partner is glued to the television and shows more devotion for Marcus Mariota than they do to them. However, Dr. Bonnie stresses, “Do not get mad when your partner is engrossed with the game. They will love and appreciate more by supporting their passion.” Here are a few of Dr. Bonnie’s Smart Heart Tips that will help get the pom-poms out for the first time in years this playoff season. • Be supportive and stay on the sidelines when the game is in motion. As her husband Jeff says, “A way to a man’s heart is through his stomach and football.” • Partners should try out some new recipes that will leave their lover’s mouth watering for more than just the seven-layer dip. Coming home with some hot chocolate, which contains PEA, is an upper and with some fluffy marshmallows they are great aphrodisiacs for touching down. • To really impress the partner, husband or boyfriend, do a little research. Start reading newspapers, Sports Illustrated, playoff feed on Twitter or even download the NFL app to learn more about stats, players and predictions for the next Vince Lombardi Trophy winner. Dr. Bonnie says, “Learning about the game will make him adore more than enough to remember this year’s Valentine’s day. It may even get a proposal, if it hasn’t already.” Sharing football without complaining, that’s a lifetime achievement award. Dr. Bonnie cautions, football time is no time for talking, especially about serious subjects. Don’t discuss any heavy topics that might instigate an argument that would ruin any chance of a halftime show. Also, competing with the announcer is another football faux pas. Besides all the chanting and swearing, notice that men are usually pretty quiet when a big play is under review. Let there only be one announcer. Everybody loves the commercials, even non sports fan, should take time to enjoy them together. Good commercials will stimulate good conversation, but leave them until after the game. Be surprised about what will come with some behavior modification. Practicing these running drills will ensure to make halftime, your time. Dr. Bonnie Eaker-Weil (Dr. Bonnie) is a relationship expert who was named by Psychology Today as one of America’s best therapists, and by New York Magazine as one of New York City’s best therapists and US Commerce association as Manhattan’s best therapist. Known as “The Adultery Buster” and the “No. 1 Love Expert,” she is the best-selling author of Adultery: The Forgivable Sin (adapted into a Lifetime movie starring actress Kate Jackson), Make Up Don’t Break Up, Finding and Keeping Love for Singles and Couples (including online video: How to Fall in Love and Stay in Love for Singles and Couples), Can We Cure and Forgive Adultery?, Staying Not Straying, How Not to (S)mother Your Man and Keep a Woman Happy, and Financial Infidelity: Seven Steps to Conquering the #1 Relationship Wrecker. Dr. Bonnie has appeared on ABC’s Good Morning America, a three-day series on NBC’s The Today Show, The Oprah Winfrey Show five times, a four day series on Fox TV regarding dating, Discovery Health documentary “Unfaithful” and A&E on addictions. She appears frequently on ABC, Fox, CBS and NBC News, The View, 20/20, and CNN. Dr. Bonnie is also available for phone therapy. Call 212-606-3787 for more details and to schedule an appointment with Dr. Bonnie |
Marriage is Like Football
Dr Bonnie known as adultery buster and football therapist, author of Make Up, Don’t Break Up found the perfect card to give to her husband for Super Bowl Sunday.
Do you agree with Dr. Bonnie that marriage is like football?
As the card says: “In marriage and football: “there is Huddle, Rushing, Time out, Unsportsmanlike conduct, Clipping (coupons), Hand-off, Backfield in motion, Forward Pass, Offsides (while sleeping), Sacking the Quarterback (Sunday mornings playfully snuggling), and We Make a great team!!!!!
Marriage can be a playful touchdown says Dr. Bonnie.
How to Combat the Uncertainty of the Coronavirus Pandemic
HOW TO COMBAT THE UNCERTAINTY OF THE CORONAVIRUS PANDEMIC
Hi, I’m Dr Bonnie and I want you to know I’m here for you to help ease your transition with this uncertainty to your “new normal” routine and shelter in place (your new office) from the coronavirus pandemic.
Here are some tips to practice daily.
1. Hug and cuddle frequently, it raises “feel good “endorphins, increases the immune system ,and reduces PTSD with the “cuddle“ hormone oxytocin
2. Get into a routine for you and your family and set clear limits and boundaries.
3. Watch the news sporadically and NOT before bedtime and NOT first thing in the morning which can cause “contagion” panic like catching a cold!
4. Avoid panic or denial. For grounding close your eyes, take some deep breaths, visualize wearing GROUNDED red boots anchoring you in the moment, especially when fearful of the uncertainty.
5. Take it ONE Day at a time in the here and now; do not think too far ahead or try to predict the future. Do not think “WHAT IF”.
6. Instead of worrying practice prayer and meditation and gratefulness. Be kind instead, not just to others but practice self-compassion also. Stay connected to loved ones, hold them dear, appreciate them and show it, by saying I love you, miss you even if from afar!
7. See this as a pause for self-reflection and feel the love rather than feeling out of control
Contact me on info@ doctorbonnie.com or 212-606-3787 if you or your child or family are exhibiting stress and anxiety or panic. I am here to ease your burden.