It’s Time to Talk Credit Scores!

Avoid financial infidelity—the #1 relationship wrecker and a pre-cursor to infidelity—by talking about credit scores/finances... 


Tips to Bring Back Sizzle

Wouldn’t life be easy if people were like mood rings where they would change color depending on mood? Or perhaps were like... 


How to have a winter affair with your own partner

As Storm Stella prepares to blanket the Northeast with snow, I implore you to use it as an excuse to make some long-lasting... 


Determining if You Have a Viable Relationship

Women often ask how they can determine if the man they’re dating is someone with whom they can have a viable relationship. ... 


People who play together, stay together.

According to the Journal of Personality and Social Sciences, couples who engage in adrenaline-raising, novel activities are... 


No better aphrodisiac than helping a woman around the house

There is no better aphrodisiac than helping a woman around the house. Women work 36 hours inside the house in addition to... 


Never underestimate the power of love and never take it for granted!

“I will connect with you, detach myself from my own thoughts and intentions so I can hear you and walk in your shoes” This... 


Spring has sprung!

Spring has sprung! Winter doldrums will lift soon when we see warmer and more consistent weather. Today is the first day... 


Even When Sleeping Separately, You’re Not Just Roommates

The National Sleep Foundation found that 1 in 4 married couples sleep in separate bedrooms! The National Association of Homebuilders... 


Is your partner narcissistic?

These are the questions to ask: Does he disconnect and expect to pick up and reconnect where he left off with no explanation? Does... 


It’s Time to Talk Credit Scores!

Avoid financial infidelity—the #1 relationship wrecker and a pre-cursor to infidelity—by talking about credit scores/finances early in the relationship—even on the first date! Good credit is sexy. The way people handle their money tells you a lot about how they handle romance and sex. Talk about your financial personality early on. Don’t wait until your relationship is at a critical point.

Financial Infidelity is more widespread than many think; studies show that 60% of couples say it is just as destructive as cheating. More than 34 percent of men and women keep money secrets from their spouse. Want to know if someone will remain faithful? Check their credit score. All the attributes required to maintain good credit, like trustworthiness and honesty, also apply to good relationships. Credit scores are like the dating equivalent of a sexually transmitted disease, giving a sense of someone’s financial past the same way an S.T.D. test gives some information about a person’s sexual past.

Make money talks sexy by using my Smart Heart Skills and Dialogue. This dialogue acts like glue when a relationship is new, and includes in a non-threatening way discussing credit scores early on so a relationship doesn’t stop before it starts. For singles who can’t find or keep loving relationships, these skills can help them get past that all-important third date.

To learn more about my Smart Heart Skills and Dialogue and infidelity—financial or otherwise—please check out to her books “Make Up, Don’t Break Up,” (winner of the New Times best dating book, 2010) which includes a DVD “Falling in Love and Staying in Love” and “Financial Infidelity, the #1 Relationship Wrecker.” You can also view a short video on financial infidelity at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JMlPVftn-E0&t=1s

More

Social media & sharing icons powered by UltimatelySocial